Q:Fellow Arien here, and I was just wondering if its normal for an Aries to have crushes for short periods of time. It seems like this keeps happening to me. I think I really like someone and then 3-4 weeks later I no longer care about them. This periodic 'fizzling out' stops me from acting on crushes immediately so I don't end up leading people on.

Anonymous

Yeah, I’ve been there.

Q:I feel as an Aries I can make it work with any sign. I'm very optimistic and can make any situation better... Is this a good thing or me just overly positive?

Anonymous

How could it not be a good thing to work well with all different kinds of people? It’s a good thing to be versatile, so good for you.

Q:I was recently with a Scorpio but kept playing her. Now I find that it's hard to gain her trust back even though I am truly sincere. But she is so slow moving and it's taking her forever to be my gf! What should I do? I'm Aries btw

Anonymous

Um, what. For future reference, don’t play with people if you want them to date you? Like, I cannot comprehend this. What.

Q:I'm a little confused if I'm an Aries - Taurus cusp because different sites are saying different days, like the 15, 16, and/or 19th of April. I'm born on the 15th and if I'm a cusp, does that explain why most of my relationships with whole signs seem to turn so sour?

Anonymous

Aries-Taurus cusp is 15th-19th so, you are a cusp. That doesn’t entirely explain why most of your relationships with whole signs turn sour, though.

Q:So from experience and just general knowledge, an Aries girl and a Cancer boy aren't a bad combination?

Anonymous

According to the zodiac, it is an awful combination. Personally, I am finding it to be a very good combination. It all depends on who you ask!

Q:do aries tend to be jealous?

Anonymous

Some do. It all depends on how confident they are. I know Aries who will never be jealous EVER because they are confident and trusting individuals. Then, there are those who will break down bawling if their significant other so much as talks to another person. It depends. 

Q:I just recently got into a long distance relationship with a Cancer and I absolutely love him. It's rough though not just because of long distance but because I over analyze and misunderstand, which I think is common with Aries. Got any tips from your experience? I think he could be the one. He is so understanding and cares for me a lot too. I don't want to fuck up because I constantly over think. He's not very open with me yet and I don't want to rush him. *sigh*

Anonymous

It’s really easy to over-analyze and misunderstand things, especially when it comes to Cancers. And then when you do get upset, they become very confused as to what happened. My only advice would be to slow down, think about what you are going to say before you say it and remember: he’s with you, not someone else. 

As for him being open with you, it will happen when it happens. Start slow, with simple things, and eventually you can work up to more personal, important information.